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Lecture

Ayelet Fisher and Iris Haim
Lessons of Light: Choosing to Harness More Light from the Darkness

Sunday 15.11.2026

How to watch

This lecture starts on 15 November at 7:00pm (UK).

Summary

In honour and eternal memory of Nevo Fisher z”l

Since her beloved son Nevo was killed in combat in Gaza at the age of 20, Ayelet Fisher has been searching for ways to live a life filled with greater meaning, continue Nevo’s path, and share the light he left behind with others. She reflects on the values that guided him, his lifelong search for truth, and his belief in the importance of unity among the people of Israel.

Ayelet shares how she is pursuing three meaningful paths: giving talks to share Nevo’s light with the world, accompanying wounded soldiers through rehabilitation and their transition back into community life, and organising volunteer missions that bring together bereaved parents and their adolescent children who have lost a sibling. She cannot change what happened, but she can choose what to do with the light Nevo left behind.

Ayelet Fisher

Ayelet Fisher is a high school educational counsellor, a supervisor and mentor to school counsellors in emergency response, crisis intervention and suicide prevention, and a spiritual care practitioner and hospice chaplain. She lives in Bruchin, in Samaria, with her husband, Yaron. Together they have four grown children and five grandchildren.

Her third son, Nevo, was killed in combat in Gaza at the age of 20. Since his death, Ayelet has dedicated herself to sharing his values and the light he left behind. She gives talks about his life, has returned to reserve military service to accompany wounded soldiers through rehabilitation and their transition back into community life, and organises volunteer missions for bereaved parents and their adolescent children who have lost a sibling.

Iris Haim

An image of Iris Haim
Iris Haim was born in Haifa, Israel and has lived most of her life in the Negev region. At 16, she joined the Machanot Ha'olim movement’s “kibbutz class” and moved to Kibbutz Ein Zivan, where she lived and worked while completing her studies. During her army service, she met Raviv, who she married in 1991 at Kibbutz Gvulot where together they raised their three children: Tuval, Yotam, and Noya. As a certified nurse for more than 30 years, Iris found her passion in supportive and palliative care. In 2014, she founded the Refuat Haim organisation, which is dedicated to supporting and assisting people in need. She continued to acquire additional tools and training, including mindfulness, NLP, Theta Healing, psychodrama, spiritual accompaniment, bioenergy, shamanic healing, and positive thinking. On October 7, 2023, Iris was herself under attack during the Hamas assault and, her son Yotam was kidnapped by Hamas terrorists and taken to Gaza. To learn more about Yotam’s life and legacy, please visit his website: https://yotam-haim.co.il/en/